儿时，小男孩家很穷，吃饭时，饭常常不够吃，母亲就把自己碗里的饭分给孩子吃。母亲说，孩子们，快吃吧，我不饿！――母亲撒的第一个..
男孩长身体的时候，勤劳的母亲常用周日休息时间去县郊农村河沟里捞些鱼来给孩子们补钙。鱼很好吃，鱼汤也很鲜。孩子们吃鱼的时候，母亲就在一旁啃鱼骨头，用舌头舔鱼骨头上的肉渍。男孩心疼，就把自己碗里的鱼夹到母亲碗里，请母亲吃鱼。母亲不吃，母亲又用筷子把鱼夹回男孩的碗里。母亲说，孩子，快吃吧，我不爱吃鱼！――母亲撒的第二个谎。
上初中了，为了缴够男孩和哥姐的学费，当缝纫工的母亲就去居委会领些火柴盒拿回家来，晚上糊了挣点分分钱补点家用。有个冬天，男孩半夜醒来，看到母亲还躬着身子在油灯下糊火柴盒。男孩说，母亲，睡了吧，明早您还要上班呢。母亲笑笑，说，孩子，快睡吧，我不困！――母亲撒的第三个谎
高考那年，母亲请了假天天站在考点门口为参加高考的男孩助阵。时逢盛夏，烈日当头，固执的母亲在烈日下一站就是几个小时。考试结束的铃声响了，母亲迎上去递过一杯用罐头瓶泡好的浓茶叮嘱孩子喝了，茶亦浓，情更浓。望着母亲干裂的嘴唇和满头的汗珠，男孩将手中的罐头瓶反递过去请母亲喝。母亲说，孩子，快喝吧，我不渴！――母亲撒的第四个谎。
父亲病逝之后，母亲又当爹又当娘，靠着自己在缝纫社里那点微薄收入含辛茹苦拉扯着几个孩子，供他们念书，日子过得苦不堪言。胡同路口电线杆下修表的李叔叔知道后，大事小事就找岔过来打个帮手，搬搬煤，挑挑水，送些钱粮来帮补男孩的家里。人非草木，孰能无情。左邻右舍对此看在眼里，记在心里，都劝母亲再嫁，何必苦了自己。然而母亲多年来却守身如玉，始终不嫁，别人再劝，母亲也断然不听，母亲说，我不爱！――母亲撒的第五个谎
男孩和她的哥姐大学毕业参加工作后，下了岗的母亲就在附近农贸市场摆了个小摊维持生活。身在外地工作的孩子们知道后就常常寄钱回来补贴母亲，母亲坚决不要，并将钱退了回去。母亲说，我有钱！――母亲撒的第六个谎
男孩留校任教两年，后又考取了美国一所名牌大学的博士生，毕业后留在美国一家科研机构工作，待遇相当丰厚，条件好了，身在异国的男孩想把母亲接来享享清福却被老人回绝了。母亲说，我不习惯！――母亲撒的第七个谎 晚年，母亲患了胃癌，住进了医院，远在大西洋彼岸的男孩乘飞机赶回来时，术后的母亲已是奄奄一息了。母亲老了，望着被病魔折磨得死去活来的母亲，男孩悲痛欲绝，潸然泪下。母亲却说，孩子，别哭，我不疼。――母亲撒的第八个谎 不论你多富有,不管你官多大,到什么时候也离不开咱的妈....愿天下父母平安度春秋....... 珍惜母亲的每一个谎言,好好的对待父母,很多东西,失去后才得来的珍贵代价太大.所以一定要好好的爱我们的父母~
如果我還一直深愛著你...你是否還會待在我身邊? 如果我還一直在乎著你...你是否會再多看我一眼? 是否我已不存在了...你才感覺的到我的離開? 是否我已離開了....你才感覺的到我對你的好?
在此祝福全天下父母平安度春秋...
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Monday, May 25, 2009
The Mayonnaise Jar ..
The Mayonnaise Jar
When things in your life seem, Almost too much to handle,
When 24 Hours in a day is not enough,
Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.
A professor stood before his philosophy class
And had some items in front of him.
When the class began, wordlessly,
He picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar
And proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students, if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured
them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again
If the jar was full... They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand
And poured it into the jar.. Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded
With an unanimous 'yes.'
The professor then produced Two cups of coffee from under the table
And poured the entire contents Into the jar, effectively
Filling the empty space between the sand.
The students laughed.
'Now,' said the professor, As the laughter subsided,
'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life..
The golf balls are the important things - God, family,
children, health, friends, and favorite passions –
Things that if everything else was lost
And only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter Like your job, house, and car.
The sand is everything else --
The small stuff.
'If you put the sand into the jar first,' He continued,
'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life..
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,
You will never have room for the things that are
Important to you.
So...
Pay attention to the things That are critical to your happiness.
Playwith your children.
Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.
There will always be time
To clean the house and fix the disposal.
'Take care of the golf balls first --
The things that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'
One of the students raised her hand
And inquired what the coffee represented.
The professor smiled.
'I'm glad you asked'.
It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'
Please share this with other "Golf Balls"
When things in your life seem, Almost too much to handle,
When 24 Hours in a day is not enough,
Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.
A professor stood before his philosophy class
And had some items in front of him.
When the class began, wordlessly,
He picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar
And proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students, if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured
them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again
If the jar was full... They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand
And poured it into the jar.. Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded
With an unanimous 'yes.'
The professor then produced Two cups of coffee from under the table
And poured the entire contents Into the jar, effectively
Filling the empty space between the sand.
The students laughed.
'Now,' said the professor, As the laughter subsided,
'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life..
The golf balls are the important things - God, family,
children, health, friends, and favorite passions –
Things that if everything else was lost
And only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter Like your job, house, and car.
The sand is everything else --
The small stuff.
'If you put the sand into the jar first,' He continued,
'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life..
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,
You will never have room for the things that are
Important to you.
So...
Pay attention to the things That are critical to your happiness.
Playwith your children.
Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.
There will always be time
To clean the house and fix the disposal.
'Take care of the golf balls first --
The things that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'
One of the students raised her hand
And inquired what the coffee represented.
The professor smiled.
'I'm glad you asked'.
It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'
Please share this with other "Golf Balls"
Friday, May 8, 2009
我爱上了…拥抱
最近看到许多文章都有关于拥抱，都很有意思…
其实，拥抱的感觉很好…当你不开心时，如果有人在这时候给你一个拥抱，那有多么的温馨啊…不需任何言语，深深得就可以很感动，无声的鼓励和支持，深深地体会和感觉，沉醉在被人拥抱和爱护的感觉，幸福的气息都赶走那讨人厌的伤心，伤感的气氛…
最近都沉醉在拥抱的感觉，好希望那幸福的光阴永远都不会完…只可惜，人终需要清醒过来…回复那残酷的现实…
只知道，回忆永远都是最好的…因为“它”已留在心中…
我，真的真的好喜欢拥抱的感觉…
我爱上了，拥抱！
其实，拥抱的感觉很好…当你不开心时，如果有人在这时候给你一个拥抱，那有多么的温馨啊…不需任何言语，深深得就可以很感动，无声的鼓励和支持，深深地体会和感觉，沉醉在被人拥抱和爱护的感觉，幸福的气息都赶走那讨人厌的伤心，伤感的气氛…
最近都沉醉在拥抱的感觉，好希望那幸福的光阴永远都不会完…只可惜，人终需要清醒过来…回复那残酷的现实…
只知道，回忆永远都是最好的…因为“它”已留在心中…
我，真的真的好喜欢拥抱的感觉…
我爱上了，拥抱！
Monday, May 4, 2009
I'm back..
I'm back.. To morning shift again.. HaizZz.. So sleepy.. After three month continuous working afternoon shift, cant really wake up early in the morning.. As wut i expected, i really get sick liao.. Every time woke up early in de morning, as usual, i sure will get cold.. Especially under the air conditional condition..
Think back the first month i work morning shift for the whole month, n how much i don wish to end the morning shift, till now, the totally different.. Ah.! After three month afternoon shift,dat allow me to sleep very late, and of coz wake up very late... My schedule ah.! Why like tis de.. I don want morning shift ah.. I wanna sleep.. Haha..
Ah chew.! The most terrible one.. Get cold.! Sleepy plus sick.! N work alone.! Pity me...
HaizZz..tats all from me for today.. The first starting day of my morning shift.. To be continue..
-the lonely sick gal-
- y kuen -
Think back the first month i work morning shift for the whole month, n how much i don wish to end the morning shift, till now, the totally different.. Ah.! After three month afternoon shift,dat allow me to sleep very late, and of coz wake up very late... My schedule ah.! Why like tis de.. I don want morning shift ah.. I wanna sleep.. Haha..
Ah chew.! The most terrible one.. Get cold.! Sleepy plus sick.! N work alone.! Pity me...
HaizZz..tats all from me for today.. The first starting day of my morning shift.. To be continue..
-the lonely sick gal-
- y kuen -
Sunday, May 3, 2009
只想愛你
我終於還是說了一句我愛你
還記得那個微涼夜裡天空正飄著小雨心跳的聲音
像舞動奇蹟
你看著我說千萬不要愛上你
因為你只會讓我傷心別傻了快點喊停
你那麼冷靜 忽遠又忽近
我知道我對你來說也許太年輕
我想我猜我問我終於了解
原來為愛流的眼淚
也是種甜蜜滋味
只想愛你
當我和你走在一起就已經決定
不看不聽不問也不會放棄是你讓我了解自己
可以為愛那麼堅定
只想愛你
好想每天睜開眼睛就能看到你
我知道我偶爾有一點任性不管你做任何決定
究竟愛我還是逃避
Sorry 我還是不會放棄愛你
只想愛你 (zhi xiang ai ni) - RAiNiE YANG
counting, counting, counting...!!
27 dayz to go..!!~
tiLL 31st of mAy 2009.. ^^
i want suprise..i want surprise..i want suprRise..!!!
its mine,its mine birthday..
haha..n of coz not forgotten miss Lee SiiN YaN also..
..12nd of may..
we are MAY baby.!!!~
lets scream..!!
let celebrate..!
hurray..!!~
=_=!
just ignore me..
i'm crazy..
YES, i am..!
lolz..
just count..
8 dayz to go till siin yan bday..
atleast..nearer than mine..
hohoho..!!
about me, m3 n mE..
before i change my look..my hair is long n black..taking pic with my colleagues after work..louis,patrick n ezan..
still the old look..with valentine theme..so in pink..asking, will u be my valentine?! lolz..
before change to pink..after workout..haha..
one of the membership consultant in fitness first, raymond..the first day i changed my look..with brown + gold hair.. nobody recognize me after changed to this look..haha..
still the same..the hot spot..neway karaoke..with my colleague..eleven.. =)
oooppps!!! make sure u R 18++..hehe..
back to qing yi..u r not forgotten.. dont worry.. ^^
waikuen with raymond..after mcD at leisure mall..
as usual..neway..haha..with ezan..
muackzzz..!~
play until hair also messy liao.. =_=! quottro is the next destination..! lets go clubbing babe..!! ooops..under age?!?
back to work...sienzzzZ...curi tulang-ing in the office..hehe..
and, of coz, absolutely open for registration now.. lolz..!
-waikuen-
03:50am
signing off...
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